It is embarrassing to discuss and can severely affect the social life of a person. The psychological impact of it is such that the person may feel depressed and would not venture out. We are talking about urinary incontinence or involuntary leakage of urine. This condition can affect all ages but is mostly seen in the elderly and affects almost 30% of the elderly population. Because of its common occurrence people think it a part of the normal ageing process but actually it is a condition that can be easily treated and even cured.
Incontinence happens in both the genders, but is more prominent in women. The causes can be varied from drinking too less water that weakens the bladder, to diseases like Alzheimer’s and Multiple Sclerosis. In women, the causes are multiple births and menopause while for men, prostrate problems led to incontinence problems.
Types of Incontinence
- Stress incontinence: It occurs whenever there is pressure on the abdomen, for instance simple actions like laughing, sneezing, getting up the chair, that puts pressure on the abdomen causes incontinence. The cause in women is multiple births and in men, it is internal sphincter damage.
- Urge incontinence: Here, there is an urge to urinate before the bladder is completely full. It occurs due to diseases like multiple sclerosis and Alzheimer’s.
- Functional incontinence: This occurs due to failure to get to the washroom in time to urinate. Stroke, neurological disorder like multiple sclerosis and Alzheimer’s can cause Functional incontinence
A visit to Doctor is necessary
Your parents may feel embarrassed to talk about the problem and hence may be denying themselves of treatment. Incontinence can be easily treated and should not be concealed from doctors. Doctors will ask them to undertake few tests for the diagnosis of the condition and to begin the treatment.
Your Doctor might recommend
- A urine analysis to rule out infection or blood in the urine
- Blood tests to check on kidney function, calcium and glucose levels
- A thorough discussion of one’s medical history
- A thorough physical exam, including a rectal exam and a pelvic exam for women and a urological exam for men.
Treatment
After the cause of incontinence has been found or confirmed, the doctor will suggest treatments through various therapies including – medication, behavioral therapy, medical devices and surgery.
Behavioral therapy
- Bladder training: In this technique, you delay the urge to go the bathroom and gradually increase the time between bathroom trips.
- Scheduled Bathroom trips: Here you do not wait till you feel like going to the washroom but do so at small intervals. This way your bladder is empty and there are less chances of incontinence.
- Double voiding: Here you ensure that your bladder is completely empty by going to the washroom again after 15 minutes of visiting once.
- Pelvic floor exercises: You strengthen the pelvic muscles by doing ‘Kegel’ exercises. Here you contract your pelvic muscles like you do to stop the urine. Doing these consistently over a period of time can help you to regulate your urination.
Medication:
Depending on the cause of the incontinence, the type of medication differs. If incontinence is due to infection then antibiotics can help. Hormone replacement therapy is recommended for post menopausal women and prostrate medicines for men.
When both behavioral therapy and medications fail to relieve them surgery is the last mode of treatment.
Things they can do to deal with incontinence:
- Cut down on alcohol and caffeine because they are diuretics that make the body lose water.
- Drink more water as that helps to keep the bladder healthy. Do not drink water 3 hours before going to bed.
- Avoid products that have aspartame as that can irritate the bladder.
- Exercises like Kegel help to control the pelvic muscles.
If your parent suffers from incontinence,
- Make the bathroom slip resistant as incontinence can cause urgent need to urinate which might lead to slips and falls.
- Incontinence can cause rash and skin irritation so ask them to apply lotions and creams that soothe.
- They will have to wear adult diapers and extra protective underwear if the incontinence is not completely treated.
When your parent is suffering from incontinence, he or she will not be very happy sharing the problems and will feel uncomfortable letting others clean the mess, but assure them that it is alright and convince them to seek medical assistance for it. With behavioral therapy and medication, urinary incontinence can be dealt with and your parents can resume their social life.
