Now that you've fallen in love with someone wonderful, are you wondering how to keep that love alive? Here's what you should be doing as a couple: Lovemaking is more to do with the heart and the mind, than with the physicality of a person. You need to say it, you need to feel it, and more than anything else, you need to be honest in loving your beloved. Alright, all of this given, yet, there are some such things without which your experience can never be complete.
Read these, apply them, and we guarantee you, making love would be an entirely different experience for both of you! Remember these, each time you both make love to each other, and let the experience last forever….
Remember the famous saying, “eyes speak a thousand words”, well eye contact can actually help you in making your love a highly personalized affair! When you are with your partner make sure you give him/her your complete attention. What your partner most desires after a hard day's work, is your full attention, and this also shows how much you are in love! Look in the eye when you both hug, when you kiss, when you talk, when you listen. Maintain eye contact at all times as it is the way you prove the honesty of your feelings and the you tell your partner, “I am in love with you”.
Health benefits: So you probably wondering what benefits can eye contact have on your partner’s health? See him blush, smile and happy, the blood in his veins just increased and pumps up faster than usual!
When you are hungry and your stomach is making noises and demanding food, no amount of trying will get the emotions into your partner’s heart, or mind, but it will only remind him more, that he needs to first eat! And then common, doesn’t he enough energy to sustain those heaty long hours that would ensue? “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach”, went the famous quote, and goes on well when the tummy demands food, and the heart craves love, the first priority will always be tummy! But be sure not to overfill yourselves, and try and get some aphrodisiacs like chocolates and strawberries, so as to perk up the hours that follow a light snack.
Health benefits: Satiating hunger pangs with nutritious food, keeps your healthy and your body remains in a position to take in additional activity. Whereas, letting go of an “empty stomach” only leads to problems of acidity, weight gain, constipation etc.
No, this is not advising you to replicate the advertisement that is doing the rounds on TV, but taking out your (or better, your partner’s favorite perfume) and wearing it over your skin for a enhanced, intimate and close affair! When getting as close as love endears, in bed, there is nothing as intoxicating as good smell, emanating from the one you love, as perfumes tend to draw you nearer, and make love even more exciting than before.
Health benefits: Scents tickle your brainy nerves and senses, and keep you feeling happy all the time, for which its effect lasts. Scents are also known to ease a stressed mind and trigger happy emotions to keep you in mood all the time.
You want to be loved, so does your hair! Just think how you would feel if your hair, not shampooed, dry and frizzy, and smelly, put off your partner, the moment they interrupt your love making rhythm! Just as much attention you give to looking pretty and wearing pretty, make sure, your hair, look healthy, well cared for, and clean. Else, the dandruff falling on your shoulders and on the pillow, is enough to spoil your intimate time with your beloved.
Health benefits: Clean, shampooed, conditioned and dandruff free hair speak a lot about the health of your hair and your inclination towards maintain impeccable personal hygiene. Moreover, dandruff in the hair can lead to severe hair loss, which in turn can be an indication of an underlying medical condition.
If this is not what either of you have, then all those things mentioned above do not stand a chance! Where there is a will, there is love! When love happens between two consenting adults, it blooms, and provides a highly satisfying experience. But if either of you is unwilling, do not go ahead with lovemaking, instead, take a break, catch up on a movie, play games, talk and listen, and you never know your pastime, will actually lead you both, with mutual consent, into bed!
Health benefits: A happy, interesting and active sex life is one of the biggest and prime benefits of applying the word “consent” in your book of lovemaking. Both of you would derive immense satisfaction and sex will be much more interesting and a fulfilling experience.
So, now that you are aware, be sure to not fall back on either of these. Even if there is a cross on any one of these tips, when you get started with making love to your partner, it may not be as fulfilling as you expected.
