“Honey please don’t sleep” is all I plead to my husband after having good intimate time. After two minutes of cuddling he starts yawning. I try my best to converse with him but soon find him snoring away. This is the reason we fight every time after having a good time together.
This is a common problem which all women face. Men don’t sleep because they don’t care or love you less. The reason for men to sleep is the hormones which are released after having sex which naturally puts them to sleep. On the other hand, it is opposite with women. They feel charged up and want more of cuddling, talking and relaxing with their partners. So all you men out there don’t just sleep after sex and try to show same passion to your other half by doing any of the following things…..
Cuddle & Talk: You are just done spending that great intimate time with your partner and want to keep the same heat alive, but how can you do it? Cuddling each other is the best way to do that. Be in each other’s arms and relax. Share what you liked, what was the best part and discuss how you can make it better by trying new things next time.
Give Massage: Giving a massage is not only sensuous but is the best way to maintain the passion on even after having sex. Decide who is making the first move and give each other top to toe massage. Don’t forget to use scented oil to make it the unforgettable one. This will completely unwind your partner from the exhaustion and make him feel relaxed. To make the mood more romantic, just turn on your dim lights and go on!
Go for Bath: The perfect way to enjoy the passionate mood after that long session of love making is going for a hot steamy bath. Just snuggle each other under the shower and relax, you can also sing a song to make it better. Bathe each other and try tickling to enjoy your shower more. Taking shower will not only increase your blood circulation but also help you get good sleep!
Watch a Movie: After having a good time of love making you are tired. Sleep is no were on your mind but your too lazy to get up n do something. Then what can you do? Then here is the best alternative to be awake with your love, simply watch a romantic movie of any one’s choice. Switch on your DVD player and lie down on your bed cuddling each other to share the warmth while you enjoy the movie. Don’t forget to share few long kisses to maintain that passion on.
Make a Snack: Sex burns calories, you heard it right. What can be better than cooking a great snack? Prepare a quick snack and head onto the table to eat. To spice it up more and keep your lovey- dovey mood on, feed each other. After finishing that lovely snack, try making some great moves on the dining table which will surely keep you away from sleep.
Play Games: Sounds weird? But it is not, you don’t necessarily need some board games for this but simply a paper and a pen. You all know the famous game of “X AND O“ right? You just have to modify it a little bit. While playing, replace ‘X’ with a heart symbol and ‘O’ with letter ‘U’. But what punishment does the loser get? he answer is to give a sweet and long kiss to one who wins. To make it more exciting for the next time just change your punishments the way you want!
