Does your man lack the initiative in bed? Does his work exhaust him to the extent that he slumbers down in bed before even taking a look at the new lingerie you just bought? Is he a lamb in bed, and takes time to charge up? Or is the spark in your relation fading with passing time?
Come on Ladies, it’s time for you to take the charge! How about doing things that can turn each night into a honeymoon night? The fire is alive alright, but you must keep the flame going right? You know, Men will be men, all you have to do is give them the spark and they would turn on the fire on their own…
These are some simple things which will keep your man coming to you from more, and get your sex life back on track. Here’s what you can do:
1. Talk Dirty: The essence of your relation is being open and free with one another. Ladies, shed your inhibitions when you are with your man, and simply be a freak! Talk dirty and talk intimate, it would arouse his interest and intrigue him all the more! You both would together discover new ideas of love making. To get the best out of him, tell him where and what you like the most about his touch, this would flame passions and both of you can rock together! He would love to know how his touch affects you. With you both in bed, there is nothing that can be termed, ‘obscene’; it’s all about ‘love’! Talking dirty to our partner in bed, is in fact Cool! The unwritten rule of a great relationship is to really talk.
2. Think position ideas: Variety is the name! Men love it when you come out with exciting new positions you both can try out. Your willingness to experiment would turn him on as men like women who exude confidence and show involvement in bed. Get yourself the “love books” and get raring to go with different ways of making love. If you're always getting down and dirty in the bedroom, enjoy a quickie on the kitchen counter or under the shower. If your man is always on top, surprise him by taking charge, this way you inject freshness into your sex life.
3. Play romantic games in bed: Get him into romantic games which boost your intimacy and unwind his mind. Let out your hidden fantasies and with some out-of-the-box ideas, add that punch of romance! Pen down your fantasies and let him pick a chit one-by-one, as you both leisurely perform them in bed, play the tickle game - its a great way to woo your man, even if he initially demonstrates some 'not-tonight-honey' signs.
4. Initiate and involve: May be he wants you to take the charge! He wants to be wooed, he wants to be made to feel, that its not just him, but you too desire sex! Take responsibility, and make him feel wanted and prized. Turn the tables to spice up your love life. After all, men love to see their partners initiating a sexual session and if it's wild, they couldn’t be happier!
