Sharing a good relationship with your spouse is one of the most beautiful feelings in the world. Though most women believe that the relationship is true, there is still a significant proportion of men who never get serious in a relationship and often play with the emotions of their wife.
When it comes to cheating partners, men often have extra marital relationship for different reasons. With cheating husbands it, seems to be more about ego and the excitement of having an illicit liason.
How would you know if your husband is having an affair? Cheating husbands are usually careful about keeping their extra marital affair a secret and hence usually go to great lengths to lie about their activities.
Cheating husbands usually share similar profiles and hence it is important to look for tell tale signs to help you determine if your partner is cheating on you.
1. A cheating husband will usually make sure to look good. Is your husband paying more attention to his appearance? Is he wearing new clothes, using cologne, and making sure his hair his well combed? If this is not his normal behavior, then this could be a sign that your spouse is having an extra marital relationship.
2. There will be a definite change in your husband’s attitude towards you. He may suddenly become more irritable and tends to get angry for minor issues. Any typical and erratic behavior can be a sign that something s ‘going wrong’. He may frequently find faults with you and try to justify having an affair in his mind.
3. Cheating husbands usually come home late on the pretext of working back late in the office or suddenly having to be away on ‘work’ trips more often if you notice there are more ‘colleague farewells’ and of course unexplained business trips outside office hours then it is time to monitor the situation to see if there is any pattern emerging.
4. A cheating husband usually takes his cell phones everywhere, even to the bathroom. He may not want you to use his cell phones. If you frequently notice deliberate deletion of all incoming and outgoing phone calls from the caller ID, it is definitely a point of concern. While receiving calls at home, if he uses low voices or hangs up quickly, or moves to the balcony to receive calls may be a clue.
5. Other signs that husband is cheating you may have a change in sex life. For example cheating husbands will often stop having sex with their wife or they suddenly want sex more often (the guilty husband syndrome). Unexplained bruises on your husband’s neck or unexplained scratches on his back may also raise your suspicions.
6. A cheating husband may generally surf the web until the wee hours of the night. E mail is another method of communication and cheating husbands would definitely delete all incoming and outgoing emails to avoid detection.
7. Other important sign that husband is giving an affair may include a drop in the amount of money going into the bank. When a man is having an affair, he would usually spend money on flowers, dining, romantic gifts etc which means a drop in the savings bank balance. You can keep an eye on the amount that is spent by checking his account balances, credit card bills etc.
It can be devastating for any women to find out that their husbands have been cheating on them. Most women often feel that infidelity can never happen in their relationship. Finding out that your better half has been cheating on you can be a real shock.
On the final note, it may sound strange but an extra marital affair does not necessarily spell the end of the marriage. It is important to check if there is anything that you should have done to ensure that your marriage came first. Nevertheless, there are many couples, who jointly examined why the affair occurred and made changes in their lives and are still happily together.