There was a time when you took great pride in having an active and happening sex life with your partner, you were never short of ideas, just time. But all tried and tested, now you feel you are in a sex rut, out of ideas, and are craving for some magical mantras that can bring back the fire in bed!
Worry you not, as we have come up with a list of seven great ways to get you going, foreplay that will eventually steam up your bedroom!!
Long gone: An oil massage
Ok, here it is. Until now you have been adding a zing to your bed-life by giving him a romantic oil massage, and you feel so much better when you listen to his snores. But now that you have had enough of having your hands on his back, why not leave the massaging to the professionals and get into something new and happening?
Just in: Your tongue on his toes
Our toes are the most neglected part during lovemaking and also the most sensitive. How about going to that part which your partner least expects and most enjoys? Bring in the sensuality and indulge in a little tongue-to-toe action. Caress and suck his each individual toe while he does yours, the nerve endings there will make you both go wild with excitement! Remember to maintain eye contact at all times.
Long Gone: Sexy Lingerie
Alright now your guy is too jaded of seeing you in that sexy red lingerie ever since the time you both have gotten into bed together. He now wants a change, so why not give him something novel?
Just in: See-thru clothes
Stay fully clothed, yet, show enough skin to make his eyes pop. Away from the in-your-eye show of skin to a more subtle, yet sensual look that makes him imagine you on the other side of the transparent, sheer white shirt or a delicate pink lace blouse!
Long Gone: Whipped cream
Once upon a time, the whipped cream was your idea of ultimate high voltage romance. That was the time when you both licked off each other sweet and creamy. But how about letting the whipped cream stay where it best belongs, as a topping on the ice cream and cakes and move onto something much more sensuous and exotic?
Just in: A mesmerizing champagne bath
A symbol of royalty, a touch of high-end intimacy! The champagne is the new mantra! For an amazing foreplay as a precursor to high-action lovemaking, why not pop open a bottle of champagne and drink it off each other? Gently pour the bubbly down your partner’s back and lick the drops as they fall. It’s intoxicating and very very sexy!!
Long Gone: Erotic scents
Jasmine and lavender scents have been your companions for ages now! You sprayed the bedroom with these, to give a fresh start to the bedtime session. Well, while for sometime the scents did show their magic, increasingly as time passed by; your smell buds got used to that particular scent, and did not recognize them anymore.
Just in: New Erotic scents
You want to switch to unpredictable scents like chocolate or liquor or something absolutely off the traded path. These would pep up the moments and add a fresh, new zing to the entire ambience.
Long Gone: The feather touch
The slight feather touch always tickled your partner to giggle, more than it did to stir up his/her feelings. And that sudden laughter spoilt it all and broke the rhythm and movement of lovemaking that you so tried to build! Why not think of a better and a more daring option?
Just in: The olive oil speller
Go oily all over him! Warm up some olive oil. Dip your fingers in it and draw shapes and spell out dirty words all over his sensitive erogenous zones. If he guesses the word correctly, you reward him. Mind it, you are not giving a massage that puts him to sleep, you want to get him into the action, and so, stick to your word when you tell him you will reward him!
Long Gone: Plain 69
Ever since your first night, the 69 position is what you had always wanted to try and you have now had it enough or so you think. We bring to you a simple trick that will never take the spice out of this age-old, steamy hot position. Here’s how….
Just in: Mint flavoured 69
Take a few sips of warm mint tea and perform oral sex on each other. Your mouths will be warm when you go down on each other and when you pull away, the mint will leave a cooling sensation. This blow-hot-blow-cold move will take you both exactly where you want to be – the ninth cloud!!
Long Gone: Game-less Intimacy
Gone are the days when foreplay and lovemaking was only about getting physical and heating each other up. Foreplay is now more about having fun with your partner, playing and competing against each other in bed, eating off one another, bathing together et al
Just in: Erotic board games
Erotic board games including “Monopoly” should be a great head start towards a “steamy” foreplay in bed at night. Both of you cozy up together on the bed and play the game while keeping erotic names for each destination mentioned in the game. The moment one of you reach the other’s destination, do as per the erotic name suggests.
With all the foreplay tips mentioned, remember to respect your partner’s preferences and do not impose yourself. Mutual understanding is primary to a great chemistry in bed.
